A few months ago, knowing that I would have a few busy months ahead of X’mas, I decided to spend my last ‘holiday’ of 2012 in New York. I once lived in this city and since moving back to London, I would return regularly until work took over two years ago. My trip to New York was long overdue, not only did I miss my friends, but also the brunches, cocktails, shopping and art exhibitions…
Yet things weren’t as rosy as I remembered… after queuing for over an hour at JFK’s immigration ( one of THE worst airports in the world), I was taken to the ‘back room’ because a Chinese officer decided that my passport photo looked ‘suspicious’! He questioned me endlessly and presumably thought I intended to stay in their country as an illegal immigrant (despite the fact that I am British and had legal status previously). The experience was not a pleasant one and it made me question the issue of identity and authority in the US, which I will not go into detail here.
During my week’s stay, the weather was as grey and wet as London, so it didn’t match the ‘fall’ image I had in my mind before my trip. Then there was the noise, pollution, dirty sidewalks and rudeness… Did I not notice these ‘facts’ when I was living there before or has my tolerance level lowered or am just I getting old and boring these days? Suddenly I realised that as much as love NYC, I no longer want to move back there anymore ( this might disappoint the immigration officer)…
Almost completed… The new One World Trade Center
However, there are still things that I miss about New York that London lacks:
Brunches – Although London’s restaurants standards have improved a lot in the past 10 years, but when it comes to brunches, it is still lagging behind, perhaps it’s because people prefer to do pub lunches here. Good eggs benedicts, bellinis/mimosas, mac n cheese and French fries are hard to come by. The NYC restaurants scene changes very quickly but there are some places that will always deliver…
Balthazar ( serves the most filling onion soup), The Standard Grill ( addictive French fries), Freds at Barneys ( if you can overcome the pretentious vibe, their salads are huge and fries are great ), Flea market cafe ( cool and relaxing French cafe in the East village)
Dirty martini on a Monday afternoon & brunch at Standard Grill
Cocktails – There is no question that NYC is THE place for cocktails, London has some great bars but not quite there yet… Cosmos are good here but dirty martinis are better!
My choice: Four Seasons hotel‘s bar ( pricey but excellent martinis in a low-key and elegant setting), Pravda ( for Russian cocktails), Bar room at The Modern ( who would have thought great cocktails can be found inside MOMA?), Cibar ( cosy neighbourhood lounge in Gramercy)
Sample sales & bargain shopping – Many ‘honest’ New Yorkers would tell you that they rarely buy full priced fashion items from the stores, instead they would go to different weekly samples sales in search for bargains, including wedding dresses! Besides samples sales, Century 21 is a bit chaotic and popular with tourists, whereas Loehmanns is more civilised. However, my friends and I are still mourning over the closure of Daffy’s, the chain stores where we used to spend hours rummaging through racks of discounted clothing…
Beauty treatments & massages – I am baffled by the standards of beauty and spa treatments in London… pricey, inconsistent and inefficient. In NYC, it’s normal to see men getting pedicures in beauty salons and they are not even gay. Going to spas or having nails done used to be my friends and I’s weekend rituals, yet I haven’t stepped foot in a London spa for years! I could get an excellent no-frill massage in a Midtown commercial building for less than $50 or an hour of pedicure treatment for $30 that would last for weeks. Treating or pampering ourselves does not always mean breaking the bank!
My choice: Exhale spa ( has 3 locations, popular with locals), Haven ( I got my own/new set of pedicure tools, very hygenic!), Jin Soon ( a cute and chilled nail spa with friendly service)
Despite all the things I miss about NYC, I am happy with my life in London, but for some reason, I felt particularly nostalgic on this trip, memories of events came flooding back. I am not even sure why, perhaps it was to do with the grey weather? Although I felt a bit sad to leave, I was glad to be going back home…